I'm No Dummy...

...when it comes to females, but I think most men would feel as confused as I do. I read alot of blogs, and the overriding sense I get from the X's is that their significant other just doesn't understand them. Or if they get in a new relationship the Y's are suspect and significantly more time is needed to see if they will "get them". X's, we will NEVER get you. So why go through the process at all. If it's purely a sexual attraction, then say it up front and save everyone time and money. If it's emotional, same thing.

What I don't get are the long standing relationships where these X's suddenly say that they aren't "gotten". Well how in the hell did that happen? You've lived with the guy for 7-10 years and suddenly he doesn't "get you". Did he ever? Maybe it wasn't you he was trying to get. Ever think of that? Maybe it was just some sort of, oh, I dunno, some place to park his dick?

This is common. Men hate to go out and look for a piece of ass. It's taxing. Women don't have any problem doing so. All they have to do is show up and the little weenie genie will find them. If the Y isn't meeting your emotional needs, then dump his ass. Sex, as you get older, occupies about .5% of your time. That's alot of other time to fill. Best be sure the person you're with "get's your ass". Otherwise, it's a long road to hoe.